Hi everyone,
This week’s blog is about perfectionism—the kind that looks like competence from the outside, but feels like constant pressure from within.
Recently, my aunt told a story about me at three years old, sitting on the stairs with a box of animal crackers. I carefully opened the box, took one out, closed the box, and only then handed it to her. When she asked for another, I repeated th...
Hi everyone,
This week’s blog is one of the most personal I’ve written in a while.
For much of my life, I believed there was something wrong with me because I froze in moments of acute stress. My mind would go blank. Later, the clarity would come—but not when I needed it most.
I now understand something I didn’t understand then:
Freeze is not failure. It’s protection.
It’s the nervous system bu...
This week’s blog is a personal one.
It’s about sensitivity—how many of us were taught to hide it, toughen up, or manage it away… and how, over time, I’ve come to understand softness not as a liability, but as a form of strength.
In Strength of Softness, I share a childhood story about being a deeply sensitive kid, the bullying that came with it, and a moment with my dad that changed how I under...
My Peace in 50
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